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Disguised Jealousy "hello": the subtle signs to know to stay protected 🧿
You're probably familiar with this kind of phrase:
"Wow, you managed to buy that car… did you win the lottery or something? 😏"
Or again:
"You're going to Dubai? But... don't you ever work?"
Does that make you laugh nervously? That's normal. Welcome to the fabulous world of disguised jealousy.
And if you think jealous people wear a neon green badge that says "officially envious," think again. The most dangerous ones are often the most polite.
At Ayoun, we help you detect weak signals and protect yourself, of course, with the most stylish accessories against bad vibes 🧿
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🤫 1. Compliments that sting
You announce good news, and bam, you receive a pseudo-compliment… which gently slides into sarcasm:
"Congratulations, huh. Just goes to show, sometimes luck is all you need."
🧿 Translation: I congratulate you, but I take away all the credit.
🎯 What it hides: A well-disguised frustration. An inability to accept your success without belittling it.
💡 What you can do:
Smile.
Do not respond.
Wear your "No Comment" cap so the message gets through on its own.
👀 2. The sudden... bizarre interest
You haven't spoken to this person for 6 months. And then, BAM, they text you:
"Hey you 😍 So what's new? You seem to be living your best life lol"
🧿 Translation: I stalked your profile, I saw that you're making progress, and it's disturbing me.
🎯 What it hides: Passive surveillance. Tracking. Analysis of trends.
💡 What you can do:
Remain cordial.
Don't expose yourself any further.
💬 3. Phrases like "it's not mean but..."
"I'm saying this nicely, but you're showing a bit too much of your life, aren't you?"
🧿 Translation: I am disturbed by your joy, so I will disguise it as benevolent advice.
🎯 What it hides: A discomfort with your light. An attempt (often unconscious) to make you doubt yourself.
💡 What you can do:
Don't change anything.
Proudly wear your Ayoun cap in your next story.
Add: "Protected, thank you for your concern." 🧿
😬 4. The very noticeable absences
You post a big news story. Everyone likes it. Except… this person. ZERO reaction. But you know they saw it. You know they looked at it several times. You know.
🧿 Translation: I saw you, and I'm deliberately not approving, because it's eating me up inside.
🎯 What it hides: A silent jealousy, sometimes more toxic than direct criticism.
💡 What you can do:
Don't try to please.
Don't try to understand.
Make every appearance stylish and protected: an Ayoun cap and that's it.
💥 5. The "I wouldn't have done it like you..."
"You invested in that? Ah... to each their own. I prefer to play it safe."
🧿 Translation: I am not capable of doing what you do, so I will make you doubt yourself.
🎯 What it hides: A desire to bring you down. To inject stress into your flow.
💡 What you can do:
Accept that it bothers them.
Keep pushing forward.
Post a stylish photo wearing the "Five In Your Eyes" cap. No caption. No explanation.
🛡️ How to protect yourself effectively?
- Be aware: you're not paranoid. You're connected. And your sensitivity is a strength.
- Don't justify yourself: those who love you don't need explanations. The others don't deserve them.
- Protect yourself:
And above all: never stop shining.
Because the world needs your light. And with Ayoun, it will always be protected. 🧿
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